How to Propose at a Concert

by Contributor ; Updated September 28, 2017

How to Propose at a Concert. Do you and your girlfriend love seeing live music? If so, whether you like punk, classical, country, rock or any other style of music, why not propose at a concert?

Step 1

Take a look at the schedule for your favorite clubs/venues. Find a night that a band that she likes or that both of you like is playing.

Step 2

Make sure that she's able to go to the show, buy tickets and keep the date clear on your calendar.

Step 3

Make a plan. If you know someone in the band, see about getting in touch with him/her to see if they would be willing to make the proposal from the stage. If you don't, talk to the managers at the club - or the band's management - to see if they could help you get the band to participate in the proposal.

Step 4

Once you know that the band is on board, plan the song dedication that you'd love them to give and get it to them.

Step 5

Buy an engagement ring so that it's available when the band delivers the dedication.

Step 6

Go to the show and be sure that you're ready when the dedication is made.


  • Things don't always go exactly the way that you plan them - if something goes wrong, take it in stride and try not to let it upset you. The most important thing is to make sure that you're both comfortable and having a good time. Most bands are willing to help out their fans, don't be afraid to ask for a dedication.

    If the band won't help you out, make a backup plan. Plan to propose between songs, or during a favorite song.