Becoming the kind of woman men chase is all about the attitude. Many women see themselves as being less than perfect, which can affect their self-confidence. The truth is they have much to offer the opposite sex. Through a few simple perception changes, it may not be as difficult as you think to draw attention from men.
Develop Genuine Confidence
Being the kind of woman men chase is choosing to have an attitude of confidence instead of self-doubt. A woman may be very beautiful on the outside, but if she has no self-confidence, she won't be considered as attractive as she could be. Likewise, a woman who may be considered physically average in the eyes of many men can develop a new level of attractiveness because of her confident attitude. Women can become more sure of themselves by taking care of their bodies and minds, as well as refusing to compare themselves to others. A healthy lifestyle always helps a woman feel her best.
Become Passionate About Something
Whether it is a sport, a hobby or a religious belief, a woman who is passionate about something she loves is attractive because this demonstrates her dedication and complexity. It takes effort and commitment to be heavily involved in a passion, just as it takes effort and commitment to be involved in a relationship.
Knowing who you are and having self-respect will draw men to you. They will be attracted to your confidence and your knowledge of your self-worth. The amount of value you place on yourself is the amount of value a man is going to think he can place on a relationship with you. You can demonstrate self-respect by dressing modestly, refusing to engage in one-night stands and setting healthy boundaries in your relationships with the opposite sex. Understand how worthy of a respectable man you are, and he will follow suit.
Have Your Own Life
Nothing is quite as unattractive to a man as a woman who is constantly clinging to him, demanding that he be her constant source of entertainment and reassurance. Men want a woman who has her own life and does not need validation from him to feel whole. Having your own life will show a man that you can develop a relationship with him and not overwhelm him with a constant need for affirmation. Develop your own hobbies, maintain separate friendships, and get involved in activities that do not involve the man you are interested in.
Make Healthy Lifestyle Choices
From what you eat, to the way you exercise, to the amount of sleep you get, making healthy choices is an attractive quality. It shows a man that you are interested in long-term health goals and that you are not going to let yourself go as you age. The science of attraction comes down to vitality, youth and health, and a woman who is motivated to keep in shape is considered attractive.
Kristen Moutria has a Bachelor of Arts in psychology from Evangel University. She is currently pursuing her Master of Arts in education from the University of Nebraska.