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How to Build a Relationship Headed Towards a Marriage

by Kristen Moutria, studioD

If you are in a relationship with someone you would like to marry, you might wonder how you can further contribute to your partner's happiness and satisfaction. Since marriage is on your mind, you want to make the best impression and demonstrate your long-term commitment. You know you have met "the one" for you when your partner completely accepts you for who you are, according to eHarmony. In order to finalize your commitment and set your relationship up for long-term success, focus on building a strong foundation of love between the two of you.

Appreciate Your Differences

Instead of trying to change your significant other, embrace what makes you different. The mutual respect that emerges once you appreciate the way you live your lives is essential for a happy relationship, according to eHarmony. It was most likely your differences that attracted you to one another in the first place. So if your loved one likes to go out with friends while you would prefer to read, embrace this instead of trying to get her to change.

Build Security in Your Relationship

Respect your partner by giving him the security he needs. This means respecting your mutual budget, and refusing to do anything that would jeopardize his trust. One sign you are secure in your relationship is being confident your partner wouldn't cheat, according to Alice Boyes, who holds a Ph.D. in psychology. If your lover knows he can trust you and doesn't have to know where you are at all times, or where every dollar you spent went, your relationship is most likely secure.

Keep Conflict in Perspective

When you have a fight with your partner, do not make that the end of your relationship. Refuse to break up in a moment of anger, only to get back together again the next day. A healthy relationship is one in which each person involved has the maturity to take a long-term perspective on conflicts, according to the authors of "9 Signs of a Healthy Relationship" on "Your Tango."

Be Playful With Each Other

Have fun with your significant other to lighten the mood and enjoy your time together. A sense of playfulness and fondness is an integral part of a healthy relationship, according to the University of Washington Hall Health Center. Tease your partner to bring a smile to her face, or enjoy a day at the fair together acting like kids. Being able to simply have fun in your relationship will show you that you can enjoy each other's company for a long time.

About the Author

Kristen Moutria has a Bachelor of Arts in psychology from Evangel University. She is currently pursuing her Master of Arts in education from the University of Nebraska.

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