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How to Save a Failing Relationship

by eHow Contributor

Do you feel as if your relationship is failing and you want to do something to save it? Have you considered leaving your mate but really wantto make it work? Well, in this article, we would like to provide you with proven tips to save a failing relationship. Are you ready? Let's begin.

Determine if your failing relationship is worth saving. Only you will know that this relationship is working in your best interest and we suggest that you are open and honest with yourself and follow your gut feeling. If your intuition tells you that the relationship is worth saving then go for it; but if you know deep down in your heart that it is not, then save yourself from much stress and unhappiness and move toward separation. If you know that the relationship is meant to be then read on.

See you and your mate happy. Since you feel that the relationship is worth saving; then you need to see you and your mate happy again. You remember the way that you were and you want to get that relationship back to that point well see it in your mind since it all begins in the mental form.

Believe that you can save your failing relationship. You need to be confident in the fact that you can server your affiliation with your love one.

Work the magic. You have seen the two of you back together so work your magic on them. You know what they like so make plans to do those things with and for them. Some examples of the things that you can do for them are fix yourself up, be loving and kind, take them out to their favorite restaurant, buy them a present, touch them lovingly, make mad passionate love to them and so forth.

Give the relationship time. It takes time to put a relationship back together and you need to exercise patience; but know that with a little work you will most likely get your man or woman back.

Review and revise your plan. Work these steps over and over again until you reach your goal of saving your marriage or hook up.

If this doesn't work to save your failing relationship, seek professional marriage or relationship counseling. Let your mate know how important this relationship is to you and see if they would agree to counseling to try to work things out.

In closing you can save your failing relationship if you determine that the affiliation is worth saving, visualize the two of you happy, believe that your relationship can be saved, work your magic, be patient, review, revise your plan as necessary and if all else fails seek marriage counseling.

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