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Three Main Ideas of Divorce

by Kurt Larsen

Divorce is one of the most damaging events that can occur in a person's life, and it can be very difficult to navigate. Many people simply don't understand where divorce comes from when it hits them. While there are a variety of reasons for divorce, there are three main ideas in particular that can contribute to the end of a marriage.

Financial Distress

One of the most common reasons for couples to get divorced is financial distress. For many couples financial issues are all too prominent, and the weight of economic distress can be enough to crush a relationship. Often times one party blames the other for the couple's collective problems, deciding that they'd be better off on their own than continuing to sink deeper into the hole they've created. Unfortunately, situations such as this often end in divorce.

Infidelity

Infidelity is more common among Americans than one might think. Approximately 57 percent of men and 54 percent of women admit to cheating on their partner at least once during the course of a marriage. For many people admittance or discovery of infidelity is enough to mark the end of a marriage. While some attempt to work through their infidelity problems through honesty and therapy, it can be excruciatingly difficult to get over the fact that a partner has cheated. Those who simply cannot forgive their partner often initiate a divorce.

Personal Differences

Perhaps the most convincing argument for a divorce is the development of personal differences between couples. As time goes on, many couples find that they begin to grow apart from one another, because priorities, interests and feelings have a way of shifting over time. While therapy can be effective in bringing couples back together, some find that trying to save a marriage where love no longer exists is simply not worth the trouble.

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About the Author

Based in Portland, Maine, Kurt Larsen began his writing career in 2008. As well as being proficient in constructing marketing and website content, he has been published in media outlets such as Buildipedia, an interactive community focusing on green and sustainable architecture. Larsen holds a Bachelor of Arts in sociology from the University of Vermont.

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