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How to Save My Relationship Stop a Breakup

by eHow Contributor

Are you in a relationship that seems like it's failing. Then you may be asking "how to save my relationship". Relationships are complicated but in order for them to last you must be willing work through the hard times. If you don't try then your relationship doesn't stand a chance. Keep reading if you want to know how to save your relationship.

Whats wrong with my relationship? This may be a question no one can easily answer. Counseling has worked for million of couples and your relationship could benefit from it, too. If you can get the other person to agree to couples counseling, then you have precious time before they choose to leave. It gives you time to convince them to give you and the relationship another chance.

Show the person why they fell in love with you. Remind them why you're together in the first place. Show some effort in wanting to deal with eachothers problems.

How to save my relationship? If you want to save your relationship, you have to convince the person that wants to leave you to give the relationship another try. This isn't always possible, but it's absolutely necessary if you have a chance of saving your relationship. I believe a relationship can be saved at virtually any stage. If you have been begging the other person to give you another try or pleading for them to get back together with you, stop now. This might seem counterproductive, as if now that the person has less resistance it will make it easier for them to leave you. Start acting more mature and behave in a more pleasant manner. Explain that you really don't want the relationship to end and you want another chance in a calm way. Make it clear that you're hurt and very sad, and you really want another chance. You might be surprised how the other person reacts when you change your behavior.

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  • As you can see, you must understand what went wrong, why it went wrong then focus on how to fix it. Although you may be able to fix what went wrong you still need to fix the relationship as a whole. For a complete, step-by-step guide to saving your relationship then I recommend "The Magic of Making Up" by an expert at relationships.