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Kids With Insecurity Problems

by Armando Pina

New experiences characterize the childhood stage where children learn mainly through observing their surrounding environment and people. Unfamiliarity makes a child's world to appear full of real and imaginary dangers. Unfamiliarity generates common feelings of insecurity, both physical and emotional. Without the appropriate parental guidance, children can undergo psychological disturbances that put them at the risk of leading unhealthy lives. A child’s behaviors often reflect his insecurities. A keen observation of your child's behaviors will point out his insecurities.

Low Self-Esteem

A child with insecurities can have low self-esteem, which robs him of his confidence. Low self-esteem can stop him from participating in discussions even when he knows the answers. KidsHealth reports that children with unhealthy self-esteem view themselves negatively. They have diminished tolerance for frustration and feel disappointed in themselves. Their diminished level of self-esteem will hinder them from socializing with their peers. You need to take an active role in helping your child to develop healthy self-esteem. Help him to identify his strengths to give him confidence in his personal abilities.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder

Most parents do not notice when their children start experiencing insecurities following trauma. A child who is experiencing nightmares following trauma is prone to post-traumatic stress disorder. The Harvard Medical School Family Health Guide reveals that PTSD can have a significant impact on a child’s behavior. Children with such disorders often detach from others. They remain aloof when exposed to unfamiliar situations. Failure to deal with childhood trauma often manifests in emotional insecurities later in life. Keenly observe your child’s behavior and discuss his fears following trauma to help forestall the development of some anxieties and fears.

Sleep Disruptions

Just like adults, children internalize their environments. When they feel overwhelmed, children often develop sleep problems. In a 2006 article in The Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry, Mona El-Sheikh et al. identified a close link between emotional insecurity and children’s sleep cycles. If your child suffers from sleep disruptions, investigate for emotional trouble. Keenly address the development of insomniac tendencies. Explore current issues in the family. Your child needs your guidance to handle his challenges appropriately. Take action to ensure that your child gets enough sleep.

Separation Anxiety

Stress-related insecurities cause children to cling to their parents. They remain close to their parents when their peers are engaging in fun activities. Separation anxiety at the age of 2 and below is considered healthy. According to MedlinePlus, prolonged separation anxiety above the age of 2 requires psychiatric attention. Parents should encourage their children to spend time with their peers away from them. Doing so will help them undergo personal development at an early age.

About the Author

Armando Pina writing has been published in various online publications. Armando holds a Bachelor of Science in elementary education. He has been writing content for major brands, magazines and newspapers, including Gather News, STACK Magazine, Colgate and Kudzu.

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