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How to handle your spouse having an affair

by braniac

Every day a couple marriage fall apart because one is having an affair. Many do not know how to deal with the suitation, my article will give you pointers an how you can moved on

Seek professional help. Don't delay; it can be very painful in dealing with your spouse having an affair. Don't do anything rational, talk to someone you trust before you act, maybe your pastor, councilor or a close relative or friend.

Deal with your emotion. Yes the pain is there, you may feel disappointed, even betrayed and also feel very angry, this is expected your human with emotions. Express your emotion appropriately. Avoid harmful behavior, such as hurting others are your self.

Know when to let go. Most relationship cannot and will not be healed, the sooner you accept that the better for you.

Reinvest in yourself. Sometimes things happen as a result of you! Take a look at yourself, your attitudes and actions to see if there is anything needs changing.

Stop the Self Denial. It won't get you any where, its time to 'love' yourself, know who you are.

Stop Feeling Sorry for Yourself. Yes you have being hurt, you feel betrayed, but feeling sorry for yourself won't get you any where. Get up and start living! Life is too precious to be wasted.

Moved On. Take sometime to get your life back on tract then walk away. You deserve better and don't let anyone treat you less than how you should be treated.

Tip

  • It won't be easy especially if kid(s) are involved but you should stay in a relationship where you have disrespected. By having an affair the guilty party clearly is saying he/she don't want this relationship, so why stay in it.

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