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How Do I Get a Pisces Man to Commit?

by Heidi Carson, MS

Pisces men tend to be very charismatic people who can be passionate one minute and mysterious and vague the next. This can be frustrating and confusing for people who are romantically involved with them. You can never force a person into a committed relationship if he is not ready, nor would you want to do so. Getting a Pisces man to commit can be difficult, but you can let him know what he is losing if you make the decision to walk away from the relationship.

Commitment from the Pisces man

Relationships can be difficult, without throwing in the struggles that come with astrological signs. Pisces men tend to have short-lived romances and struggle with the realities of relationships. For every rule there is the exception. They often play the come-closer-and-now-go-away game. This often leaves the other person feeling confused and bewildered. When Pisces men feel that they are being pressured, they will seek solitude and take a leave of absence from the relationship. Some things to think about when you are dating a Pisces man is to allow him enough room to grow. Let him experience aspects of life without you and leave him alone with his feelings. This will help him decide how he feels about the relationship. Because Pisces men tend to have commitment phobias, let your man know that being in a committed relationship with you is not the end of the world. He needs to know that he will not lose his identity and will still have the freedom to spend time with friends without feeling guilty. Pisces men tend to be attracted to people who are strong and independent. They like people who can do their own thing without the other partner. It is these elements of a personality that often keeps Pisces men in the relationship. Take time for yourself and create healthy boundaries within the relationship. Try not to be available at all times. This often jolts the ambivalent person into seeing reality and that his own behavior keeps him from a happy, committed life. Sit down with your partner and have an open and honest discussion about what you want and need from him. If you feel that your needs will not be met then you might need to rethink being with a Pisces man.

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About the Author

Based in Rochester, N.Y., Heidi Carson is an employee training specialist with over 14 years of experience in the behavioral health field. Carson has been writing for Demand Studios since the summer of 2009. She received her Bachelor of Arts from St. John Fisher college in psychology and her Master of Science from from the University of Rochester in human development.